The more our brain experiences something the more it wants what it knows. So, if we fill our brains and our air time with complaints, our brain will want to keep doing it. If we fill our brains with the good stuff, our brains will continue to want to see the good. It doesn't mean we ignore what's hard. It doesn't mean we can't talk about what's hard. It means that for our sake and the sake of others, we don't live there for too long. That's all.
Saying No
What might it look like to become deeply curious about the sense of agency that educators and students have in our schools?
Some Opinions Aren’t Worth Sharing
And feeling better right now is golden. We need to find ways to feel better. Because when I give myself a pause, and when I'm feeling better, then I can get deeply curious. About the world around me, about why things are or are not happening - and getting curious and asking good questions is a big part of discovering how we can make things better.
This is the Work
Knowing this gives us great power. Every word and interaction has the power to grow hope in other people. We can grow a sense of hope for the future. We can grow their belief that they are capable beyond on measure. We can grow everyone's sense of wellbeing. We can remind others that there are good people in this world who will stand in their corner, have their back, and cheer for them.
Overfunctioning
As Jim Elliot said, "Wherever you are, be all there."
Growth Lists
Think about how far you've come. Just think about it for a second. Think about all of the hard days that you've made it through. And just look at you. Wow, you made it. You are strong and inspiring and you've grown. I'm so deeply proud of you. I'm proud of us.
Because of a Teacher
This work is legacy work. And it's built one day at a time, one small move at a time. As Peter Block has said, "How do you change the world? One room at a time. Which room? The one you're in."
Mosquito Moves
The only move that's too small is the move you don't make for the right reason.
Turn the Radio Up
The world is filled with enough that makes us feel heavy and overwhelmed. The work is the work - whether we enjoy it or not. So, how might we make it feel a bit more light and breezy?
What’s Going Right
Imagine how the world would change if we stopped to notice what's going right more often.